Helloooooooooo ~
Yes, I am back with a new blog layout. Sorry if you doesn't like but for now I kinda like this, maybe I am too obsess with myself. LOL! It takes me so long to have do this template, because I just want to edit it until I am satisfied if not I will just continue doing it till I'm happy with it. It's already the mid of the month and I'm going back to work real soon in the last week of August, surprisingly, I'm quite looking forward to work. It could be because there won't be stress like how I have it at home, haha!
This whole week I have been staying at home or went out with Shervelle and my sister. It can be a tiring job to bring Shervelle out but as long as she's happy and laugh, I know it's worth it! :) I took her to Serangoon NEX, we went to Pet's Lover Centre and she like the animal there a lot, thus I'm thinking to bring her to Zoo on the 24th August with my Sister instead of River Safari, since she like animal so much added that she must be really curious about them. I can't wait, hopefully the weather would be nice to us.
Other than that, nothing much actually.
My life is just simply fill with the two girls, Shervelle and Sherrine. With them around, every single day just goes by and it's just so fast that I don't even realize. Because every morning 8-10am plus would be my wake up time, and I'll bathe Shervelle while Mom bathe Sherrine. Aftermath, have my breakfast and then play around with Shervelle while Sherrine is sleeping. At around 12-2pm, I'll take Shervelle to her afternoon nap and I'll be doing my stuff or anything to do with Sherrine. And so, Shervelle will wake up in 1-3 hours time, depend on how tired she is. After she's awake, I'll be playing around with her till about night time and in between could be feeding/patting meimei also. Then night time will come and Shervelle will goes to sleep at around 9-10pm. And then my own time till next morning.
Inhale/Exhale.
Anyway, I came across something on Facebook which I find it true and sharing here with all of you.
" What Oprah Winfrey had to say about men :
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending. Compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary not supplementary.
Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes.When a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that: You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have a lot of choices. Make the right one. Ladies take care of your own hearts."
