一切终于结束了。

25th August 2008 - 06th May 2015;

 

Officially divorced, officially divorceeeeee!  

It's been approx. six years and eighth month plus.

From stranger to friend, to boyfriend/girlfriend, to husband & wife.

From a teenager to adult, from nothing to parent of two daughters.

How did this six years plus passes?

I really have no idea.. I think back where did all these times goes to?

Almost 3 years of dating to we enter marriage life, did everything happen to fast?

Are we ready to be one another's life time partner?

I know clearly that I am and I know exactly that you aren't, but I still take that risk and married you.

And yes, time had proven that I lost.

I lost my youth. I lost my freedom. I lost my time. 

I lost a lot during these six years plus. 

But I know I did learn throughout this six years plus of journey as well..

I've learn to be independent, to be strong for it was my only choice.

From a 'know-nothing-at-all' Mom to 'I-have-to-do-everything' Mom;

to be honest, this journey is really not easy but for the girls, I've manage to pull it thru;

for they give me strength when i was weak.

We've the good and bad times, chances were given to you over and over again.

Despite how flirty you were, how abusive you were;

I still take you as my partner, but you've never shown enough respect to me;

which why we are landed into where we are now - Divorced.

I hold no regrets in leaving you, 

for I've prove that I can do well with the girls without your presence.

I have no regrets to know you, to married you, to bore our kids as well;

for they make me a better, stronger and independent woman now.

I am thankful that your leaving taught me how to be a more capable woman.

I once thought that when a relationship went downhill, its one party to blame but after some time I realize, no it's not. Relationship are manage by two person, so if we've to put blame on someone, both are to be blame and yes, maybe during those days, I didn't manage to be your ideal wife thus the incident happen but ... anyway, it's finally over.

Right now, all i wish is that you will never appear in front of me and the girls anymore.

It could be for I've owe you in the previous life, and now I've return all the 'debts'

All I want now is, 你走你的陽關道，我過我的獨木橋。

Bid goodbye to the past, 

and welcome the beautiful future that awaits for me!! 

❥ Le'22nd Birthday!

I am a year older again on 29th Apr 

but this year its a little different for that I am blessed with lots of love.

On the 25th/26th Apr,

I had a birthday lunch treat from my parent.

B join, Bro & his gf and Sis & her bf as well.

It's like a whole family lunch-ing together. Hehehehe.

We had lunch at Nanbei Imperial Treasure Restaurant at Tampines 1.

I like the ambience and also the food! They're really good.

 

  

 

 

  

 

 

 

  

I didn't know we order this much of food.

I think we finish them but we were all really full and bloated. Hahaha.

But the food are really delicious, I would definitely want to visit again.

Afterwhich, we head home.

My fav of that day:

 

 

Look how bless I am to have them with me right now.

Present from bro's & gf (left) and sis & bf (right)

Really love them tumblr, will definitely make good use of it.

 

On the 'i forgotten' which day, I've a date with my BFF, Veronica.

She dated me out, so I took Shervelle with me as well on that day.

We went to 49-Seats at town area for dinner. While I was walking in, I'm startled for all my BFFs are sitting down there waiting for me! :') I really miss them so much! With that, they bought my favorite dark chocolate cake from Chocolate Origin; I swear I really like those cakes! 

 

 

Thankful for them to come out and surprise me for my birthday. Ever since I met these bunch of crazy good best friends, they always surprise me on my birthday! So thankful that they make the effort to celebrate my birthday with me. Thank you!

And on my actual birthday,

I went to work. Receiving well wishes from my colleagues. The day went as per normal and then at the end of the day, B came to fetch me from work. He gave me a perfume as present and told me that this is only 'appetizer', I wasn't really sure what does he mean by that but still thankful to receive a perfume from him for he know that I needed one.

When I reach home, I saw Awfully Chocolate Birthday cake.

It's from B again, and there's chocolate ice cream also! Hehehehe.

So chocolate, I love it.

Mommy gave me 2 pairs of shoes for she know I need them too!

Thank you Mommy! 

Simple dinner for birthday but blessed one.

 

 

 

  

 

 

"I wish that the one I love is always pink in health. I wish that everything stay the way it is now"

 

And each time during my lunar birthday, my mom would always prepare the red wine chicken meesua for me. So thankful to have my mom as my mom even thou some time she is rather temperamental. Hehehe.

 

And that comes to the end of my 22nd birthday...

Just when I thought it was already ending...

B came to my work place and surprise me with my birthday present!!!

 

To be honest, I did not expect a TR-60 for my birthday present.

And what's more its the newest model from Casio.

I really love the camera a lot!!

And lastly, I really wanna thank B for the present. For he say, he's searching high and low for this.

Thank you B, love youuuuuuuuu !!

2015// 新年咯，過年咯！

It's been some time and I know that Chinese New Year has also past long ago.

But I will just roughly summarize the days.

Le'Girl in the tradition cheongsum for celebration in school.

My little girl is so beautiful, with that dimple.

  

As usual, during the eve of the Chinese New Year we would always go to our paternal's grandparent place for reunion dinner - Steamboat. Took wefie with the girls and then we also receive our first red packet from our grandparent and great-grandparent. Hehehe.

  

  

And the following day will be our Chinese New Year Day One.

We would usually go to our maternal's great grandparents' place.

I, somehow think that Chinese New Year has slowly become less lively as it were before.

But nevertheless, I think the girls enjoy the most for there're many goodies.

  

 

And usually on the second day of Chinese New Year are often the last day where we'll do house visiting and also the most house that we'll be heading. 

We are going our another great-grandparent's place and relatives place for house visiting.

Its also the first Chinese New Year visiting that B is attending together with me.

I'm really happy that he can join us! 

  

 

 

 

 

  

 

  

  

 

Third day of Chinese New Year are usually people come over to my place for house visiting.

And so this is roughly how my Chinese New Year are spend.

A simple one.

Next update: My 22nd Birthday