I, personally love that phrase - "Forget what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you."
It is so true that we should never forget about how the pain, the mistake that we made can teach us and help us to be stronger. It's true that we should just move on and forget about what hurt us, because holding on to the pain will only cause more pain. It's a simple logic, however people tends to be blinded by anger and pain which tends to make us hold on instead of moving on. I, myself went through this and I would say, it's really tiring holding on to the pain that has hurt us that much.
People are often blinded and do silly things when they are in pain and their mind is full of anger. Just like I once did during months ago. I don't know why but I think it's a very common thing that people would be filled with anger when pain are hurting us badly. Some time it could be so hurting that we wanted to do anything we can even to the extend of revenging.
However, when time slowly pass .. I realize actually :
I believe that's the best revenge.
To show all the people that causes you pain that we're living better and even better after they are gone. It's always best to let those that hurt you knowing that what they've did make you grow stronger and braver, and let them know that we're doing so much better. We should always keep that in mind that they want to see us fall, so we must not let them get what they want instead we should stand up strong and move on.
After so much happening to me, I came out with this :
" Everything happen for a reason. Be it that what happening is good or bad, it still happen for a reason and I am sure that the reason will always be good. Rainbow will come after rain, the sun will still shine, the Earth will still rotate, so don't ever let the world of yours to stop for someone who is never worth."
I believe I have grow more strong and independent after someone I have love and commit for years left me. Because he left me with an option, I left him with a choice. It's life, what comes around goes around.I believe I have done my best for everything and done what I can to save what happening not to happen but still like I say, things that would happen will still happen. Just open your heart and let it go, that's what we can do to lessen the pain.
My two darling is also my "painkiller". They bring me laughter, comfort and love, they help me by keeping me busy and have no extra time to think of anything though some time in the night I might still be feeling down but still it will get better and better after days. Life with the two angelic princess make my world fill with lots of laughter, comfort, love and reasons to believe in rainbow after rain.
Smile and move on, believe in hope and trust that rainbow will always come after rain.
