What makes a real Dad has nothing to do with DNA
but everything to do with love.
Hello Everyone, I'm blogging again.
This time round, I'm gonna blog about what makes a real dad. Many of you should have read my status on Facebook saying about that bloody idiot, yes, my ex-Husband. I'm done with it and I seriously had enough tolerating about it. I don't know why do I've to endure everything myself and suck it up myself. Since he is that selfish already, why should I even be kind to him? Am I right to say so? Correct me if I'm not.
Okay. Now. From the start of what has happen, serious, I've never tell anyone any lies about what has happen or I make up my own story and make myself pity and let them take up all the blames. I swear I have never ever done so and I never talk about that matter to make myself gain more attention or sympathy from people, because I don't need it.
I'm very angry. Very very angry. I'm angry with myself. Yes, your eyes ain't playing with you. I am pissed off with myself for forgiving him non-stop and become a "habit" for him. Therefore, I guess he would have never thought that I would even want to divorce with him. He might just thought that all he need was to apologize and tell me he won't do it again but I'm sorry, I'm no longer the one I was in the past. I'm a Mom of two already.
Okay. Anyway, so what is makes me feel that you're qualify as a real dad.
Firstly, He definitely needs to be responsible and also to set a good example for the children. At this point, you've already failed to do so. You ain't a good example and you're not responsible. Oh, and let me remind you, getting married with me doesn't mean you're taking up the responsibilities. Getting married with me because I've your children, that's just nothing to me because I don't need that marriage cert to feed my children.
Secondly, He definitely have to work hard for the family and do his best to make sure his children have a good life. It doesn't mean staying in a bungalow or driving expensive car call having a good life. A good life to me means, at least we've a shelter, food and clothes for us. That's more than enough.
Thirdly, He shouldn't be complaining that earning money for the children means no life, just because he couldn't get himself what he wants. Earning money for children and make sure they're living good and for their better education and future while we've to sacrifice ourselves at times ain't wrong. We're the parents, we bring them to the world, at least we've to make sure that we didn't bring them to the world to suffer because we love them.
These are the main three points to me. However to you, it doesn't seems so, then I'm sorry. We've different points of view of being a Dad than! If that's the case, I don't see a point why my children need to suffer to have you as their Dad. Don't worry, I won't let them know that they've such a Dad too.
*Okay, done ranting. I shall head to sleep now.*
